Below is an obituary from Nichols Funeral Home:
WILMINGTON, MA — Carol Ann Arena (Karwanski), age 79, a long-time resident of Wilmington, passed away sooner than expected.
Carol left us on Tuesday, July 13th, after an almost 2-year battle with lung cancer. Throughout it all, she never lost her hope or positivity. We admire her for this. Our mom was such a character. She always said that she wanted her children to have a better life than she did, and she accomplished this. She adored her husband, Guy, and they recently celebrated their 56th wedding anniversary.
She took great pride in her family. She spent her years as a stay-at-home mom while her children were young, taking us to hockey, dance, piano – whatever we were involved in. She was a second mom to the neighborhood kids and our cousins, especially to Stephen’s friends who routinely came and ate her out of house and home. She loved it! Her 2 granddaughters were her absolute pride and joy, and she would do anything for them, and often did.
She was gregarious – and would talk the ear off of anyone who would listen. She was generous, always thinking of the neighbors, person who would plow the drive, etc. and be sure to have Christmas presents for them. Christmas was, by far, her favorite holiday, and she adored all the fuss and cooking/baking surrounding the season. Christmas cards would be perched on the mantle, and picture cards were her favorite, and graced the home for weeks.
She liked her house a certain way, and would dance to the “oldies” while cleaning. She had a thing for plastic bags, and would use them to organize absolutely everything. She loved to watch Dr Pol and Jeopardy, and was so happy when she got an answer correct. She had a cat, Angeline, that was doted on. She enjoyed visits from Pendergast and Meghan, her grand-dogs, and was smitten with the newest furbaby, Dobbs. She loved the wildlife in the back yard as well, and would look for the groundhog and put out stale bread for the birds and squirrels. She had an ongoing disagreement with the racoons, who, many years ago, would go into the trash, and if caught, would unabashedly sit and stare at her from the pile of mess that they made.
She was happiest being with her family. She had always loved the ocean, and mom and dad would spend mornings sipping coffee and watching the waves at her favorite place, Salisbury Beach. Going there will never be the same again.
Seeing sick kids always made her so grateful that her children were happy and healthy. She wanted to donate to St Jude’s to help the families in their time of greatest crisis, and thus, our request to donate to them in lieu of flowers.
For those that knew her, she has left a hole in their hearts. For those that didn’t, she lives on in her children, who, in the end, did turn out all right.
We love you mom,
Cheryl, Stephen and Andrea
Carol was the beloved wife of Guy Arena, devoted mother of Cheryl Arena of Malden, Stephen Arena of Windham, NH and Andrea Arena & her husband Larry Sanchez of Dracut. Loving “Gram” of Syrah Arena and Olivia Sanchez, cherished daughter of the late Henry and Matilda (Arsenault) Karwanski, dear sister of Diane Tomassian & her husband Marcel of San Jose, CA, Linda Welch of Swampscott, Christine Lane of Braintree, Beverly Shirl of CA and the late Robert Karwanski. Carol is also survived by her beloved grand dogs as well as her many nieces and nephews.
Family and friends will gather at the Nichols Funeral Home, 187 Middlesex Ave. (Rte. 62), Wilmington, MA, on Tuesday, July 20th for Visitation from 11:00 a.m. – 12:00 noon immediately followed by a Service at 12:00 noon. Interment will take place in Wildwood Cemetery, Wilmington, MA.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Carol’s memory to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959.
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